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18. 以祖训定论「不求金玉贵,但愿子孙贤」 - 中国金 Leisure Metaverse
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18. 以祖训定论「不求金玉贵,但愿子孙贤」

我所处的时代,前期历经二次世界大战,国内战乱频呈,可以比作雷声隆隆,电光闪闪、狂风暴雨,但我个人处境,倒可比作室内游泳池,一池清水,水波不兴,基本上顺利平安活到古稀之年。

我个人首先靠父亲执教南洋中学,使我得到免费读到高中毕业,具有入社会工作的条件,否则可能在乡下务农终生。继靠开哥提携,并毅然大胆带我去香港,这是转折点,能在港、新、缅、渝、印、沪等地工作迄今,光荣退休,安渡晚年。这两大关键,我时刻铭感在心。

 

我们老家,祖父、父亲年仅五十余岁即见背,稍嫌过早,祖母寿六十九,母亲寿八十,姑母寿七十六,但都未能较好享受子孙的供养,实有憾焉。我们姊妹兄弟五人及大姐夫、二姐夫、芳嫂、中贤、除二姐夫中年四十余岁即病逝,至为痛惜,大姐夫六十余岁患不治之症而逝,大姊年近八十病逝外,我们五人,可指望趁过古稀八九十甚或百岁,亦未可知。

哥嫂诸侄外出,备受艰苦,自在意想之中,此后情况好转,至为欣慰。诸侄读书上进,个个获得博士、硕士学位,在我乡常为人称道,是我家的骄傲,青出于蓝而胜于蓝,堪慰祖先。自曾祖父母一代起共五代,可说代代父母慈爱,子女孝顺,姊妹兄弟姑嫂和睦,祖先八三公贻铭「不求金玉贵,但愿子孙贤」在我家完全体现出来了。

 

我与中贤仅生两儿,天资尚高,尤以数学智力胜我十倍。大儿自小好学,不肯浪费时间,有空就博览群书,能克苦工作,平时自学,未虚渡大好光阴,1978年冬回沪结婚,喜筵设在上海福州路杏花楼。于七九年考取赴美国实习的资格,1980年春赴美国,实习年余,1981年夏初回国,  发挥所长,学以致用,多次受到登报表扬。1982年得一女,现已三岁。

小儿于1982年春3月11日结婚,席设上海南京路新雅饭店,1983年春得一女,现已二岁。小儿功课好,数学更突出,对出国深造意志甚坚。在自己条件具备后,幸蒙开哥二姪等赞助栽培,才能于1983年5月28日顺利出国赴美国留学深造,这也是他努力的结果。他的TOEFL及GRE均已过关,并得较高的分数,为读研究生创造了英语条件,我们内心至为喜悦。希望小儿饮水思源,获此机会之不易,倘无开哥的资助,二侄的担保,何能出国深造。望进一步扎实努力学习,以期学有所成,力求发展,报答栽培之恩。

我对我这一生,极为满意,虽自己天资愚钝,为家为国未有什么建树和贡献,只能希望子孙后代更加超越先人,为我庄氏争光。一旦骑鹤西归,必将含笑九泉,我已可先作此定论了。

庄汉定 1984年4月20日

 

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